Charlie's Blog

After all the turmoil, after asking her to give me space during the night she came to bed at 6am. A part of me wanted her to, a part of me wondered if that was another attempt at 'crossing a boundary' and see how far she can test me again. I am tired of this, why are women like this, the always need to test boundaries and see how far they can push you. I'm exhausted of being a "man". I just want to be me. We went out for lunch at a mall, did a little bit of shopping. These ar

Today, something happened - something that pushed the boundaries of my relationship. Something that, infact crossed the boundaries of my relationship and quite likely, will forever change or break my relationship with C. I expressed my concern, and how it made me very uncomfortable including worry & jealousy when C contacts someone from her past. She knowingly and willingly contacted someone from her past, a gentleman that has featured and been made a problem solely due to he

I had a good day. Helping and mentoring others makes me feel good, I get a deep, grounded satisfaction from it: sharing knowledge and helping others grow. I interviewed 2 candidates for a junior position, one who knew everything with AI and one who knew nothing but who reasoned. Guess who is getting the position. I have a colleague at work, who questions my fundamentals of knowledge about work, I have not yet responded and do not intend to: this is a boundary cross, an ego-tr